True love only happens once

Vanessa Flores, submitstoryhere@gmail.com

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Some people may think it’s an ignorant thing to say or think, but I believe that we only fall in love once. If a person can fall in love more than 10 times, then what is so special about it?

People can argue and say that this is crazy because they have had experiences of falling in love more than once but maybe you were never in love or the feeling wasn’t mutual because if two people fall in love with each other then it is almost impossible for them to fall out of love.

I once thought I was in love.

I’m no longer with this guy that I once said that I was in love with, and he said he felt the same way.

But now I realize that we were never truly in love with each other because if we were then we’d still be together.

When a couple is in love with each other I believe then that’s when those two can’t be separated.

When you’re in love with someone, your brain has to feel that you can’t live without him or her — It’s an everlasting feeling. As some people would say “love is the strongest drug ever.”

A new meta-analysis study conducted by Syracuse University Professor Stephanie Ortigue reveals falling in love can elicit not only the same euphoric feeling as using cocaine, but also affects intellectual areas of the brain.

It’s such a special thing. Love is a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.

Nothing in this world can separate them or change that.

You have to find your soul mate and fall in love with that person.

A soul mate is a person with whom one has a strong affinity, shared values, tastes, and often a romantic bond.

You can have relationships with many people in your life.

Some could be because you wanted, or an obsession, or simply because you liked him or her.

You can love someone without being in love with him or her. Sometimes we mistake love with “in love”.

I think the act of “falling in love” is a feeling that is uncontrollable.

This could be why people think they’ve been in and out of love before with several people because the problem was that they didn’t fall in love with their soul mate but felt some sort of strong love for that person.

So it’s unlikely they were in love the first time.

I really believe there is just one person in the world that’s meant for you to fall in love with.

I think it only happens once and not over and over again.

I’m not saying to those that say they’ve been “in love” before that you won’t find love again because most likely you will, what I’m saying is sometimes we’re not sure of what we’re feeling so we think we confuse our feelings.

When you’re in love, you start to think that your loved one is different, special, and unique.

You begin to feel an inability to feel the same passionate love for anyone else.

Being in love, researchers say, is a form of addiction.

People in love begin to show signs of jealousy and separation anxiety. You start to wish that you both could be together all the time.

So have you really been in love before? Or are you really in love now?

You can fall in love with the same person over and over again.

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