True love only happens once
April 12, 2013
Some people may think it’s an ignorant thing to say or think, but I believe that we only fall in love once. If a person can fall in love more than 10 times, then what is so special about it?
People can argue and say that this is crazy because they have had experiences of falling in love more than once but maybe you were never in love or the feeling wasn’t mutual because if two people fall in love with each other then it is almost impossible for them to fall out of love.
I once thought I was in love.
I’m no longer with this guy that I once said that I was in love with, and he said he felt the same way.
But now I realize that we were never truly in love with each other because if we were then we’d still be together.
When a couple is in love with each other I believe then that’s when those two can’t be separated.
When you’re in love with someone, your brain has to feel that you can’t live without him or her — It’s an everlasting feeling. As some people would say “love is the strongest drug ever.”
A new meta-analysis study conducted by Syracuse University Professor Stephanie Ortigue reveals falling in love can elicit not only the same euphoric feeling as using cocaine, but also affects intellectual areas of the brain.
It’s such a special thing. Love is a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.
Nothing in this world can separate them or change that.
You have to find your soul mate and fall in love with that person.
A soul mate is a person with whom one has a strong affinity, shared values, tastes, and often a romantic bond.
You can have relationships with many people in your life.
Some could be because you wanted, or an obsession, or simply because you liked him or her.
You can love someone without being in love with him or her. Sometimes we mistake love with “in love”.
I think the act of “falling in love” is a feeling that is uncontrollable.
This could be why people think they’ve been in and out of love before with several people because the problem was that they didn’t fall in love with their soul mate but felt some sort of strong love for that person.
So it’s unlikely they were in love the first time.
I really believe there is just one person in the world that’s meant for you to fall in love with.
I think it only happens once and not over and over again.
I’m not saying to those that say they’ve been “in love” before that you won’t find love again because most likely you will, what I’m saying is sometimes we’re not sure of what we’re feeling so we think we confuse our feelings.
When you’re in love, you start to think that your loved one is different, special, and unique.
You begin to feel an inability to feel the same passionate love for anyone else.
Being in love, researchers say, is a form of addiction.
People in love begin to show signs of jealousy and separation anxiety. You start to wish that you both could be together all the time.
So have you really been in love before? Or are you really in love now?
You can fall in love with the same person over and over again.
Guest
Feb 24, 2021 at 12:03 pm
Real true love really came very easy for our family members many years ago, and that is why most of them really stayed together in those days which they had very long lasting marriages as well. Most women back then really had very good manners, and a great personality as well. Today women have really changed unfortunately, and not for the good at all. What in the world happened to these women nowadays? Oh i know, Feminism.
BR
Feb 11, 2021 at 2:17 pm
I don’t think there is a simple answer to this question. I’ve heard all of the adages about “other fish in the sea”, “there are different types of loves”, etc. I’ve been happily married for 20+ years, but I have always felt some sort of “spiritual connection” to that “one true love”. This was my mate during my late college years and is the only person I’ve ever pursued with reckless energy. The moment I saw her, something clicked inside of me. I felt more alive with her than I have at any other time. She ‘got me’…she understood me and I just felt like everything about her made sense. That is, until her father told her she needed to date other people before going further with me. It was probably not unrealistic, but in my immature state and being so drawn to her, I couldn’t deal with it. We lost contact (no cell phones then) for a while and then we finally ran into each other. We couldn’t figure out what went so wrong or why we weren’t together, but it didn’t matter because she was engaged. I suggested we get together for coffee one last time, but she had far too much class to do that. I had too much respect for her to damage her life. I “moved on” and made a life with another person also. But that one stays with me…maybe not every day but I still feel her voice and presence within me. Not seeking any reconciliation…we’re not those same two people any longer, but I’m just saying not every ex is toxic and I don’t believe you ever replace that one true love. I completely understand that’s who she was. I don’t think there is any closure…you enjoy the memories of ever having loved like that and you keep going.
Maybe we’ll meet in another lifetime or something. I still can’t figure out why I still have such a strong spiritual (and visceral) connection to someone I haven’t seen in a very long time. She still stirs up all kinds of emotions in my that I often don’t believe I even possess any longer. It was a magic time in my life though…long live that experience!
Heart broken
Feb 1, 2021 at 8:43 pm
I have had this debate for years, how can you say you love a person break up and then no longer in love. This happens you truly were not in love. I was in a relationship for 18 years, I left a relationship I moved away and got married to someone else. However, I cannot get her out of my head, nor my heart. We were so close that I felt it and when something was going on in her life although we had no communication. I would hear songs that reminded me of her, I will see her smiling face in my mind. In my heart I knew it all along she too was in a relationship with anyone else, all I had to do was show up and it would be over. For 10 years this went on, and then one day seemingly out of the blue I got a message from her.
To make a long story short, I ended up getting a divorce and marrying the true love of my life. It was as if we picked up from where we left . The only change was, that I love just grew deeper. I found out that actually truly is possible to fall in love over and over and over again with the same person. She is the person who showed me what unconditional love feels like on earth. There was never a question as to whether she love me while separated or altogether and everyone that came into contact with her knew it.
She is the only person that I can say that I have ever been in love with although I have told multiple people I love them. We just talked about how we’ve been in love for 38 years. I just lost the love of my life unexpectedly almost 2 months ago now and it feels like a piece of my heart was buried with her.
I feel so blessed to have had what many people live a lifetime searching for but don’t receive.
Yes, we can be in relationships and tell one another “ I love you” , and sincerely mean it at the time. But, if rocky times, or another individual can turn your head causing you to venture out or leave the relationship, your WERE/ARE not “ in love”. I feel like true love is a one in a lifetime experience, however I really don’t know, as it has only happened once for me.
Anonymous
Aug 31, 2020 at 6:10 am
Many people were just very lucky when they found love since it just happened to be very easy for them, while many others it just wasn’t meant to be unfortunately. I know i would really hate to be single and alone the rest of my life since it has so many disadvantages as well. Women today have really changed from many years ago which certainly has a lot to do with it why so many of us men can’t find love unfortunately.
Kathie
Aug 10, 2020 at 11:17 am
You can love many in a life time but you can only fall in once. I met my only when I was nearly 17 and he was almost 19. We were together for 2 1/2 years. We talked marriage, were pinned, planned our life. Unfortunately, he was in college, winning QB, popular, very attractive, etc. He had too much to drink one night, anther girl got pregnant and he did the right thing, gave his son his name. He could never tell me that. I was a virgin when we met and he insisted I would be when we married. We parted. And didn’t see each other for 20 years. We were both married, had children and those little ones took priority. We spent 7 hours in a public place and just talked. That love was still evident even then in small touches and long looks. Words weren’t necessary, we didn’t need them. We didn’t see or speak again. He died several years ago. I divorced 17 years ago and he died a year later. I have lived alone since then, no relationships. Why? Because I finally realized that “dating for dinner” wasn’t a good reason. I’m content in my heart and soul with memories and the knowledge I’ll see him again. He’s waiting for me in heaven. I’m 70 now and we’ll be together soon. I long to feel his arm around me, his hand in my hair once again. I miss him. I always have.
Anonymous
Aug 5, 2020 at 6:32 am
Women today have so many very high expectations now unfortunately, which makes love very difficult too find for so many of us single guys.
Tanya
Jun 25, 2020 at 3:47 am
2 years back we both broke up by deciding mutually since he can’t accept me in front of his family so i rather decided that i can’t be with that person who don’t even have guts to accept me but now also after 2 years neither he is able to forget me nor i…we tried each and every effort…i even tried to block him from everywhere but somehow everytime he stopped me…he said atleast we can remain connected forever in social networking sites na…. what should i do….i really want to move forward…i don’t want to stuck in this situation forever!
Debi K
Apr 11, 2020 at 5:01 pm
Why are you allowing your parents to control your life?
Jim
Feb 5, 2020 at 7:09 am
Well now that so many women have very high standards when it comes to us single men looking for love, which these women today are so very high maintenance, independent, selfish, spoiled, greedy, picky, narcissists, think they really are all that, gold diggers, cheaters, and lets not forget how very money hungry they really are nowadays as well too. So these are very excellent reasons why so many of us men can’t find love at all today because of these very pathetic women that are everywhere now. Funny how very easy it use to be for the men back in the old days to find love since most women back then were nothing at all like these women are today, and they were very good ladies as well since they had very good manners and a great personality back then as well. Their parents which most of them really did raise their children well back then, and today their parents are real losers altogether as well since they really can’t raise their children the right way at all now which they’re very much too blame to begin with that caused this real mess in the first place. Very impossible for many of us good single men looking for love these days unfortunately since we really have no reason top blame ourselves at all in the first place. These are the type of women that will just grow very old all alone with a bunch of cats when their time comes since they really wouldn’t even make a good wife at all to begin with, especially the ones that sleep around all the time.
Rumneik
Feb 3, 2020 at 8:16 pm
I really love my boyfriend but why do I always lie him about things …i think i am gonna hurt him if i said the truth or lie to save others …he shared me his insecurity and what i did in return i hit it bck unknowingly …sometimes I feel that i don’t deserve him …i am afraid that if he ll know me he ll leave and cant live without him …even when i think about it i go numb ….n I feel helpless vulnerable i think he is my true love and i think i have lost him by not proving him that how much I love him n how much importance he has in my life and never made efforts to let him trust me coz I don’t know how to prove this ….is it if person points out like this is thing i am doing to prove this than a person trusts
Anonymous
Jan 22, 2020 at 3:19 pm
Timber….love comes and love goes but a one true love never dies and never will. A marriage cannot even make this die.
Anonymous With The Truth
Dec 17, 2019 at 6:42 am
Well for the men and women out there that were very extremely blessed and lucky to find love with one another, have so very very much to be thankful for since their life is very much complete. If only many of us good single men were that blessed and lucky too, which we would’ve been all settled down ourselves instead of still being single and alone today.
Julia Michell
Nov 28, 2019 at 10:41 am
My True Love died almost 2 years ago. Now I question if he were my True Love. If I was his. My understanding now is capable of seeing all the things that I could not, would not understand then. He kept telling me. He could not leave me because he loved me. I thought I could leave him once but I couldn’t and didn’t and then he died just as we were to embark on the second leg of our love. The first lasted 26 years. I should be happy. But I cry all the time. When people ask if I will love again I say no, there is not other. If anything I need to prove my love now, the way I feel it now. Is it love or is it yearning?
lilianna
Sep 6, 2019 at 11:42 pm
I fell in love with a guy, but we were forced to break up by both of our families. When this happened it raised my heart rate so high for so long it actually almost killed me. I loved him with all of my heart and its been months and I still do. I can’t even be attracted to anybody else. I only want to be with him. I would die for him in a second. I’m deeply in love. My question is, since I fell in love and he said he loved me but never classified whether he was in love or not…does that mean he is in love too…since my love for him is so strong, does that mean that he is in love too?
Doug
Apr 7, 2019 at 5:48 pm
To me love has nothing to do with shared valves or similarities. To me it is spiritual. I know I can never love any one else and never have. I’ve been married on paper 3 times but only been married once. Right now we’re not married legally, but she is still my wife. I knew I was hers and she was mine the moment I saw her. The energy, the feeling that I had been hers all my life at45 years old. Somebody said if you are together you were meant to be, I know plenty of couple’s who are together physically but not in Their hearts and souls. Even though she isn’t with me in body she is still with me every second of every hour if every day and in my dreams.
Richard
Apr 6, 2019 at 10:11 am
Love at first sight! It happened to be my Psych NP. The split second I saw her my life changed . Since she was my mental health provider, it quickly became labeled as transference. I am still very confused about it. She never expressed feelings for me, and I waited as long as I could to tell her. Besides the attraction, the connection I felt was almost as strong. She was very easy to open up to and I trusted her completely. Knowing she had no feelings for me, the pain was equally as intense as the joy. It did not end well and stays with me to this day. I have experienced the most wonderful love. I do believe in love at first sight. This was definitely a once in a lifetime love which I thank God for. A precious gift for sure. As painful as it was, I wouldn’t change a thing.
Benj
Mar 1, 2019 at 4:26 pm
What about when someone dies? My boyfriends ex died a few years ago. I feel like he is the love of my life and he wants to live his life with me but I find it very difficult to accept he loved someone before me very strongly. How do I know if I’m the true love? I feel like that past relationship he had never got fully fulfilled since she died.
Natalie
Feb 18, 2019 at 7:27 pm
If you ”fall in love”, you can fall ”out of love”. If you love, it will always be there.
amanda jackson
Jan 4, 2019 at 3:53 am
When I first met my fiancé everything was so right the conversation on the phone when we saw eachother it’s like a light lite up n we both just couldn’t stop smiles and looking into eachother eyes n didn’t. Even want to leave eachother. Side it was like we knew eachother for forever man it was the best feeling ever and from there we was around eachother every single day can’t get enough of eachother he got me pregnant on purpose I understand in a relationship you go through the ups n down the birds and the bees but when I tell you no matter what we went through I always knew he was the one for me my soulmate and he knew I was his the feelings are always mutual with us n that’s the best thing ever man loving someone in every way and he feels the same exact way we think about eachother every single day all day n it’s crazy how you meet someone sure they not perfect at all but in your eyes they everything He got locked up n I went crazy mean while lost our first child together he don’t have none n it drove me crazy I lost myself you kno your Inlove with someone and found your true soul mate when even when things get tough. Heated arguments arise you never ever think about leaving because u kno relationships ain’t easy and people say stuff they don’t really mean it look it y’all have something good hold on to it trust me cause I’m holding on right n never letting go n yes we are still together n remember no relationship is perfect we love eachother we are obsessed with eachother crazy about eachother cherish eachother n remember true love is two imperfect people who chooses to never give up on eachother. When u falll inlove it’s a feeling u get But once u get it only u with know so stick. Through the fights the arguments the bad sad the ups n down days cause in the end u gone see my husband he not perfect at all but I love him for him along with his flaws see a woman can change for a man but a man will only change for someone he love n mines definitely did n I’m so thankful god put him in my life I adore that man of mines so much he’s my rock my shelter my comfort my Bestfriend my everything n while he got his dreams n I got the vision n we gone make it with god n effort every single day learn your man and woman n listen n understand n u can’t go wrong pay attention some. Day we all have to mature more 2019 strive is for ever we can’t live without eachother that’s my babycakes
Monika
Nov 24, 2018 at 12:57 pm
I thought I was in love we started dating at 14 and we re together until I was 36. Now that I look back at the relationship I don’t think he was able to be in love at all but I tried to make up for that. I figured if I tried hard enough, loved him enough, did everything he wanted one day he would return the love. Now I’m alone with my lovely daughters which I thank him for because in spite hurting me I have them. The scary thing is that I think I’ll never meet anyone who will ever love me so I don’t try dating at all. Sometimes I wonder if it’s possible to find true love.
Mike C
Oct 5, 2018 at 2:16 pm
I fell in love with an actual Goddess. I was 45, she was 41 but looked 28. It was a miraculous thing to behold a woman who retained her youth like this. After I met her, I’ve never really seen other women as beautiful again. I literally never notice another woman while we were together. I was rock climbing one day about 2 months into the relationship, I fell of my route and my heart started beating extremely fast and irregular. I came to find out that I needed open heart surgery. A week later I went into the hospital with an atypical pneumonia that sent me into a comma. I was in that state for 2+ weeks, almost died. The last thing I remembered before slipping away was this beautiful angel laying next to me and it’s what I remembered fighting to get back to this life for. I had to recover from that experience for open heart surgery 2 months later and she was there for me again, let me recover at her house. A year later she was diagnosed with an aggressive breast cancer. We were broken up for the second time by then, and I knew I had to find my way back to her to take care of her, show her the love that I have for her and her 3 kids. Even though we were broken up, she same over a couple days before her double mastectomy to have her breasts touched by the man she loved one last time. One of the first things out of her mouth was, “you are home to me.” She still didn’t want me in the recovery room day of surgery because she hadn’t told her friends yet we were back together. I made an excuse to take a pillow to her, find her room and I was there when she woke up to put ice in her mouth, message her feet, and take care of her. I would take care of her until she was well. We would have a fight several months later over religion (she is Mormon and I am no longer believing.) We broke up again, and I wandered this earth like a wraith in the underworld, trying to find his way back to life. I would attempt to go see her several times. She eventually threatened a restraining order and said never come back, “pretend we all died.” I was send into an infinite see of pain to know perfect suffering, and I came back, but I was so changed. I have never considered myself part of the normal realm of humans since. Just as I had resigned that this would be forever, I decided to place a profile on Bumble, see if I could even stomach meeting with another woman. The day after I got a call from her, making some comment about the type of woman I would attract with the profile I had created, but playing it off in her way. I knew what the call meant, but this one doesn’t chase, but I knew she had opened herself up to it, so I chased her once again. Within a week, we were on a date. It had been 6 months. She got in my car, put her arm around me as we drive up to a mountain town for the afternoon. It was pure magic, as it had always been, as if no time had passed. We hiked up a trail and kissed as passionately and perfectly as ever two of this kind usually do. She really made me work for it this time, came up with a list of things she wanted from me, asked me what I would like from her. I had to date her for 2 long months to be welcomed back into the house. This time, I became distracted with a side project to make extra money. I worked quite a lot on this project over the holidays. She became disenchanted and tried to let me know she felt distance from me, like I was not present with here and the kids as she wished. I really missed all the queues and by Jan 10th of 2018 she said the dreaded words she had uttered before, “I need time and space.” I went over yesterday to see if I could reach her one last time. She said she is dating someone. She told me “I want you to listen very carefully. I have never felt more loved my any other man, I have also never felt more afraid of any other man.” She said, “I have never come back to any other man after breaking up with him. I have come back to you 6 times in three years, and here only reason is due to the way I love you. I have never felt emotionally safe with you.” She also said, “great love is not the only thing. Our personalities are different.” I don’t really understand any of what happened. There was no physical or verbal abuse, but I do talk about the controversial topic from time to time, which usually ended in me learning to shut my mouth more, or I felt an imminent treat to the relationship if I did overstep keeping it positive and pleasant. She is not someone who can entertain many different ideas an who is searching for the truth, but more of a pragmatic person, just looking for peace and safety. I regret I could not make her feel this. We would spend hours exploring each other. It was the most transcendent and healing experience of my life and I think if you caught her on an honest and open day she would admit the same. I feel like there is a link between us that was set in motion when the universe started unfolding, that we were predestined to share the above as well us many other very specific moments that are to personal and private for me to share. I don’t want all of this to be completely public, but I do want to add to this once in a lifetime experience, and let people know it can happen at any age, but like all the rest here I would agree it is only once. I have had enough women pass through my timeline to speak with some authority on this, however subjective it may ultimately be. I’m not sure whether I should count myself lucky or cursed. At this age, I am easily given to the feeling that there is not much left for me in this world after that. She will date, possibly even marry, but she will never feel the way she did for me. It’s not something I have to convince myself about. This fact makes me very sad for her, myself and her kids. Everyone has lost here. I have had a pretty rough life, and I do believe I would have lived much longer knowing I would be the last person holding her hand as she or I passed out of this life.
Nargiz
Oct 5, 2018 at 3:18 am
I think it changes up to people. Just because you haven’t experienced second love yet doesn’t mean nobody can.
Kaira sharma
Oct 2, 2018 at 7:00 am
We both are in love. We are separated because he was frustated from me. Things are gone too wrong with us, his and my family problems, his career and he is fed up from me. I thought that he needs time. But he walked on with another girl just to show me that he is happy without me but actually he is not. I saw him, he was crying and hiding it from me when he met with me for the last time on his birthday. I just want him back and nothing. I decided to wait but he said i’ll die but not come back. He said hr will marry with another girl. He truly loves me from his soul. He gave me his every emotion, feeling, his family time, study time even he decided to drop his career for the sake of our future. He still have our memories whether it accessories, cards, roses and our pictures in his phone. So if all these things he has then why is he breaking up with me i know he has transformed his self but he still loves me i can see it in his eyes. Why is he doing all these things? What should i do now? Please someone tell me. Please help me. I am ready to give him time but he don’t want to come back. What should i do?
Johnathan Harrison
Aug 18, 2018 at 11:28 pm
I fell in love with a wonderful man 15 years ago. He and I had a wonderful friendship all of those years, but he was pretty immature so I decided to wait it out. I invited him to dinner 7 years ago.. He had matured so much, was handsome, focused and it was his 46th Birthday. I know that my memory has never been that good, but how can you miss an anniversary if it’s also his birthday!! From that point on we were inseparable. It was the first time in my life I felt complete. The physical as well as mental attraction and the hours we spent working at our business and life was amazing. A year and a half ago he found out he had pancreatic cancer. Such a devastating thing can destroy relationships, but ours was only grew stronger. You do spend time crying, but I found the strength to take him to the mountains and beaches and anywhere he wanted to go. There were times the stress wore on me, but I still had him and wasn’t going to waste one minute. When you love someone that much you really feel that you could, without a doubt swap places in a heartbeat. When you love someone that much you don’t want to live without them. Unfortunately God would not grant my wish. I can say that he died my arms. The shock took a few weeks to set in. It took this amount of time for me to even consider writing about it, but I know it’s real. One can truly care more about someone else more than his or her own life or existence. I just want to say thank you to God or whoever our creator may be for the remarkable joy and blessing I was given. As I have moved forward, I have become comfortable with the possibility that I will never love like that again. But I would never have traded that love for anything; evening having to go through that heart-break all over again.
Peter
Jul 7, 2018 at 4:56 am
I am in love that’s for sure! I don’t think that I will be ever able to love the same way another women… I had to let go the biggest love in my live and I’m heart broken… I got the feeling that every next girl will be hurt by me, because I am no longer able to love…
Kane
Jun 20, 2018 at 2:40 pm
I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos I never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me. The girl I want to get marry to left me few weeks to our wedding for another man. When I called her she never picked my calls, She blocked me on her facebook and changed her facebook status from engage to Single, when I went to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me. I lost my job as a result of this cos I couldn’t get myself anymore, my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life. I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i travel to East to execute some business that I have been developing some years back. I told him my problem and all i have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job, he told me he gonna help me, I didn’t believe that in the first place. But he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets’ was amazed when i heard that from him…he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back, the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he’s busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells, he said am gonna see positive results in the next 14 days that is Thursday. My girlfriend called me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done. She said, she never knew what she was doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again. it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call, I called the man and told him my my girl friend called and he said I haven’t seen anything yet… he said i will also get my job back. And when its Sunday, they called me at my place of work that i should resume work on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit I have spent at home without working…My life is back into shape have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with a baby boy and I have my job back too. This man is really powerful…if we have up to 20 people like him in the world, the world would have been a better place…He has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now…Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help. You can mail him to erika_raven_temple@ religious. com, I can’t give out his number cos he told me he don’t want to be disturbed by many people across the world…he said his email is okay and he also have a web site if you want to visit him there’ he will replied to any emails asap..Hope he helped u out too…good luck. His web site is ericaraventemple. webs. com
philakohshapes
Apr 14, 2018 at 9:46 pm
I’m not understand why some people go into married more than 1to5 and they always call it love mean why love is once…
philakohshapes
Apr 14, 2018 at 9:32 pm
What should I do. to get my life life???
Daniela
Mar 20, 2018 at 9:14 pm
Help from dr_mack@ yahoo. com is wonderful, i and my lover are back together after 4 years of separation
Frances Osborne
Mar 20, 2018 at 9:12 pm
I want to share a testimony of my life to every one. i was married to my husband, i love him so much we have been married for 5 years now with two kids. when he went for a vacation to France he meant a lady called Clara, he told me that he is no longer interested in the marriage any more. i was so confuse and seeking for help, i don’t know what to do until I met my friend Miss Florida and told her about my problem. she told me not to worry about it that she had a similar problem before and introduce me to a man called Dr Mack who cast a spell on her ex and bring him back to her after 3days. Miss Florida ask me to contact Dr_mack@ yahoo. com. I contacted him to help me bring back my husband and he ask me not to worry about it that the gods of his fore-fathers will fight for me. He told me by three days he will re-unite me and my husband together. After three day my husband called and told me he is coming back to sought out things with me, I was surprise when I saw him and he started crying for forgiveness. Right now I am the happiest woman on earth for what this great spell caster did for me and my husband, you can contact Dr Mack on any problem in this world, he is very nice,
Michelle
May 15, 2018 at 9:07 am
Yes.will give me the number of you call for the spills..please..
LostIowaCitySoul
Jan 12, 2018 at 6:53 am
I recently got married, my wife and I have a beautiful 4 year old little girl and newly expecting another. I have a deep secret that I cannot no longer hold in. I feel ashamed, confused, and also determined. My story goes like this…I met my soulmate my freshman year of High School going into my Sophomore year, it was like a straight to DVD cheesy movie. Met at church during an event,the twister had just swept through so we were temporarily at the hall;) Anyways it was magical time slowed down and it actually occurred on 2 separate occasions. It’s an impossible feeling to explain. I played football she was a cheerleader at our cross town rival school, everything seemed perfect. However I was a terrible boyfriend to her… I would cheat and she would take me back over and over again this occurred on at least 5 different times within 3 1/2 years… looking back now I feel digusted with my former self. She was my 1st for everything and I took advantage of her trust and all for the thrill, it’s truly disgusting and not like my 25 year old self now… She eventually pulled the plug the winter of our freshman year in College, she had met some guy at work and one thing led to another and I got what I deserved. I was distraught that she would break up with me for someone else, I begged her to stay They didn’t make it official until a couple months later, from January to August she enjoyed herself and vacationed with her new lover. Upon returning that summer fate had it we would become neighbors our Sophomore Year of college, we started hanging out again small chat is all I was still heart broken and I noticed she looked as if she felt bad or was sorry but didn’t know how to let me know. At the time I had she recently met my Wife and other ladies so I had options and was very unsure of what to do next, the following months was heaven and hell… I had now been dating my wife for a few weeks and the pressure was definitely in the air between my ex and I we were now with “new partners” just beginning to get to know them, she final cracked one night at the time she had been spending the night over a few times out of the week making the excuse of not wanting to walk home late at night, which of course I didn’t mind at all. We never made love or got really intimate we just cuddled, that night she admitted coming back from her vacation and a song came on reminding her of me and balled her eyes out. She apologized about how we ended…I don’t know why I pulled out my phone and put pandora on and played our favorite band, the one she was referring to. She said “If you don’t cry, I don’t know what’s wrong with you?” I replied.”It’s not fair to them, we had our time”… we were literally dancing in my room and we knew it was over then, she gave me the chance to come back to her that night and I rejected it… I felt pressured at the time by my wife who was obvousily annoyed she would still be communicating with me during our first couple of months dating and it even got to the point of jeopardizing our relationship that winter, We still loved eachother and I blew it I thought… I eventually promised my wife that I could cut all ties with my ex and that I was devoted to our new relationship, I lied. A year later my daughter was born, unexpectedly We were happy but unsure of what the future had in store for us, I dropped out of college shortly after that broken promise was made in Winter. When my daughter was born it was the happiest day of my life, I learned to love her mom… My ex and I still were contact via FB/Snapchat I mean cmon we had Myspace when we dated in high school why not keep in touch, I learned the hard way you cannot be friends with you ex’s or at least not on your present one’s watch. I would get caught talking to her from time to time, we only spoke as friends. One day she texted me, my daughter was probably 2 or so. The ex was at the university at the time pursuing her ambitions dreams she always wanted and was wanted to catch up at a coffee shop. I don’t know why I showed my now wife the texts, she grabbed my phone and sent back a very nasty text back. After that we were no longer Facebook friends and very rarely communicated… a year later I think she might have been a senior in college now we texted back in forth a little for advice is what she called it, she admitted to cheating on her boyfriend(the one she left me for pretty much). Not only did she cheat it happened twice on a weekend with two of his hockey teammates… gross I know, but who am I to judge. My past was no better, something that day told me I was at fault for her bad decisions. It sounds crazy but I feel like I took a conservative young woman and turned her into a very liberated woman and this was the end result.. she felt awful but didn’t tell him, I had advised her to as it was the right thing to do. I mean I had told her every single time when we dated, she was new to the game and stayed quiet. A few months went by and I noticed they broke up and were no longer Facebook friends… I figure word finally got around to the poor guy…. I was peaceful then knowing I was winning my relationship had now surpassed there’s, disgusting way of thinking of it I know. She would still view some of my stories from time to time and I would do the same, somewhere along the line she blocked me, probably for her personal battles. I know I have mine. I decided to baptized myself and got married shortly after, the marriage was amazing and it was truly the one of my dreams, except my bride was not the one from my dreams, I’m a loyal husband though and am not that punk I was in high school… A week before my wedding I sent a message on fb, I asked for her address to send her an invite. Although it may seem very douchey too most. This was a promise we made to eachother back when we would spend nights on the phone literally. We always thought no matter what, we would find a way to be friends and in our lives. I was drunk that night so I admitted my inner feelings towards her, she did reply to my surprise. She thanked me for the invite but said it was not in her place to attend which we both knew. She is going into her 2nd year of Grad school now and is still pursuing her dreams of making an impact on this world. She also wished my family and I luck, brushed off the sappy stuff as being young and niave. I like to think not. She finished with wanting for that to be the extend of the conversation. I haven’t contacted her since. It’s has now been 7 years since we broke up and I still dream of her to this day… I see her family from time to time we are on good terms, When she comes from break she shows up in my cousins snaps… I’m starting to think it will not end until I move from this forsaken city as everything I do makes me think of her. I can’t block her on fb yet… maybe I should… Like I mentioned at the beginning I’m ashamed, confused, and determined to seeks answers from within. I don’t think I would ever divorce my wife I know it’s too soon to say but what I’m doing is not right. I know. I’m a very strong believer that you can only truly love once, but one can learn to love someone. I need help guys, I feel like I’m reminiscing on past memories of her and love the old her, but unsure when thinking of what she did. I embrace her new self which I don’t think she knows. I’m always thinking if I made the right decision, how things would be if we would have gotten back together that night in my room…dancing… maybe we would have finished school together… maybe she would have never know what cheating was like… maybe we would be traveling the world together… or maybe we would have a 4 year old and expecting a 2nd… maybe I’ll will be with her when I’m in my 60’s… I’m pretty sure you can only love once.
Radicaldelusion
Sep 29, 2017 at 2:51 pm
I agree 100%. I fell in love with my soulmate the very first time we had a one-on-one conversation and looked deeply into each other’s eyes and did not look away. We spent an entire year together, then separated. We stayed in contact for a couple years on and off. He got married, but is unhappily married. After five years of being out of touch, something told me to contact him because he needed me. When I did, he was ecstatic because he told me he needed me and I was the only person who could help him be strong enough to leave his marriage. We have been talking every day for two months. We are still in love, and it is stronger than ever. He was never in love with his wife. She is extremely jealous, and knows deep down that he is in love with me. She is so possessive, and reads his emails, hacked into his phone and reads his text messages and even checks the phone calls and sees the amount of time we spend on the phone with each other. We are going to spend several days together in a couple months. It has been seven years since we have seen each other, and I know there is going to be electricity. I have never been in love with anyone else, and I never will. I know the same is true for him. I am not a homewrecker, since he wanted to leave her and we had not been in touch for five years. We have been having an emotional affair for two months. But, before they got married, he was going to leave her and be with me, but she discovered that and conveniently got pregnant even though she was supposedly on the pill. He should have been careful, but she seduced him and did everything she could, even though he did not really even want her. When she was pregnant, he married her due to the pressure he felt from his entire family. He even asked me what he should do, and I told him he had to make that decision. I left his life, knowing that if we were meant to be together The universe will bring us back together. And it has. So when we see each other in two months, we will probably have an affair. I don’t feel guilty because she technically, purposely, tried to steal him away for me, even though his heart has always been with me. Does that make me a bad person? He is going to leave her, but he is trying to make her realize that she is not being realistic and that it is an unhealthy relationship when she has to spy on him all the time and keep them in a cage. So, she is going to therapy and even group therapy. He is hoping that for the sake of their child, and for both of their sakes, that they can remain friends, and that even she and I can become friends. He wants this to be as amicable as possible. She and I have even started to build a friendship. She knows deep down that she has already lost him, and never really had him to begin with. This is going to be very difficult, but to make a long story short, yes. One love. Only one true love.
The Honest Truth
Jul 30, 2017 at 8:21 am
Well unfortunately it really Doesn’t happen at all nowadays to begin with which in the old days real love was very Easy to find if you were really looking for it.
Art
Jun 3, 2017 at 8:54 pm
I don’t know where to begin.. This woman I fell for is the most gorgeous thing I have ever laid eyes on, her scent by all that is divine it is so tantalizing, absolutely addicting and her very presence is calming and the thought of seeing her excites and uplifts me.. Her flaws, her strengths.. None of it truly matters, it’s all the same to me.. In my eyes, and perspective she is perfect, I shared my deepest darkest secrets with her, whom I never shared with anyone else before, no past relationships were as significant, and before I thought I loved them but found out it wasn’t true, they never helped me grow as a person like I am now. I fell for her back in high school, I was a senior drop out and was turning 18, she was a freshman and about 14, I saw her only a few times and then eventually was told by my family that if I went and saw her again they would call the cops on me and press charges, so being naive and young I had to leave her out of fear of charges ruining my life and what not.. I asked her to wait for me and then a month or maybe a bit longer later I found out she went back to an ex boyfriend I think she had previously.. It shattered me inside, I got jealous and argued with him, being young and stupid basically.. She was so depressed, I remember because I was depressed too.. So four years pass and in between these four years she would off and on message me or try and get in contact because she had hoped we could be together.. While I was with an ex gf who was my gf at the time she messaged me asking for a sort of closure, she told me to tell her if I didn’t love her anymore.. So I lied, and I felt so sad deep down, I told her I didn’t love her and she blocked me..
So about 2 and a half years ago 6 months after a break up with the girl I dated previously whom I was with for a year, I had a dream of what it would be like if me and my now true love dated, and oddly enough I woke up that morning and went on my laptop in hope of being able to contact her, I tried finding her only to see i could not get in contact, and the weird part is, later that day or the next day I get a message from her, I explained to her what was going on and we talked for about 2 or 3 months before getting together.. She was still with that guy from before when we started talking, which he made her block me and pretty much controlled her and didn’t let her or want her talking to me which I guess makes sense, she had told me about how he beat her, hit her in the face and choking her, how he went to jail for her and what not and about how I wasn’t willing to take a charge to have her.. So anyway we hit it off and I told her she deserved better, she left that guy and shortly after we began dating, which at the time was long distance for a few months, I moved out to be with her, got my first job and a year in together we separated because I myself have mental problems and past traumas buried deep inside, insecurities and fears of losing her again.. So my anxiety took control and I said the nastiest things and we got into some physical arguments, mostly myself.. She left for about 3-4 months and during that time I had to take sick leave from my job, I couldn’t do anything at all, everything just felt so hopeless.. So we finally ended up talking again and she came back for another year or year and a half, during this time a lot of stress was on us, alcoholic room mate whos slobby sort of, we have conflicting work schedules where I only could see her 2 days at most out of the week, no car so basically not as much freedom, stress from my work like never being good enough. So we fought again and this time worse than before, I started getting into drugs, specifically being cocaine because I wanted to just connect with her without stress, and she told me she didn’t want to use any substance to connect and I understand that now, she wanted it to be genuine like it was when we first got together when it wasn’t as stressful and things were better..
Eventually she left again, about a month or two ago and tells me she wants to work on herself and for me to learn to be happy on my own, which I can be and was before we started dating. She says she won’t or can’t put her life on pause for me and I shouldn’t either.. But i cannot even if I wanted find anyone else that I want or can connect with on that deep of a level.. She is my true love and when you find your true love you look back at past relationships and just think man, this is it.. This is the feeling I want for the rest of my life, the feeling when this beautiful angel is around, this person is like my home, my sun and moon.. People often think “exaggeration” but it isn’t to me.. I wish I could project my feelings onto a screen so all could see that it’s true.. I feel like Noah in the notebook and I just dont know what to do.. I am trying to change for the better, coping with anxiety, picking up hobbies and finding a better job with a good schedule.. I still hope and wish so much that there will be another time period within our lives where we are together again.. This woman is my true love and she says she doesn’t want me anymore and can’t promise me anything, she says she still loves me buy just doesn’t want me.. I believe I pushed her away and made her numb to me from out fighting too consistently.. I took our time together for granted you know because I didn’t just be and let be, I over think and just don’t cope well with anxiety.. As cheesy as it all sounds, I know.. But its true.. I want her to be so happy, but envisioning her with another man tears me apart inside, please.. If there is any advice one could offer, I am all ears.. I think of her everyday and cry near daily at least once, I have never felt so connected to a person and now lost..
twin flame
Jul 21, 2017 at 9:14 pm
You have perfectly described the twin flame relationship. If you look this up (Cassady Cayne is very good) you will understand much more clearly what has happened.
Real True Love Really Existed Years Ago
Apr 6, 2017 at 12:09 pm
Well it is fact that real true love really existed years ago the way that it happened for our family members that many of them are even still together today as i speak which finding love for many of us good single men now is like trying to hit the lottery. Now i know why our family members had it so very easy back then which they just had a couple on TV that just celebrated their 81st year together. It sure was very much meant to be for them which i can certainly say.
A Sadly Single Man
Apr 5, 2017 at 5:07 am
Since it does take two too tango it is very extremely difficult for many of us good men still looking for a love life today since the women now are so very picky when it comes to finding love themselves since most women today will only want the very best of all and will never settle for less unfortunately. Most women now do prefer a man that makes a lot of money so they will never go with a man like us that don’t make a lot of money since many women nowadays are very greedy, selfish, and very spoiled which tells the whole story right there as well. A very excellent reason why there are so many of us single men today that should’ve been all settled down by now since many of us aren’t to blame at all.
Anam khan
Feb 24, 2017 at 12:21 pm
True love is forever..
I love a guy who is 9years eldr to me
V r still together but the fact that kills me everyday is i know that ders no future of us coz my dad will never agree ive tried my best to convince my mother n she is ok wid us but its all in gods hands whats fated for us v cant change evn if v want to ..v luv each other truly nd ive read n seen many times people tellng n sharing that life goes on happily once someone else comes to your life n you move on n totally forget yout true love n you do fall in love twice or more than that but i dont believe nor ill eva coz i know how strong it feels when you both truly love i think you can never fall for anyone n totally forget n vanish your true loves thoughts..but v should always b positive even after knowing the fact that v cant b toghethr in future i still have a smile on my face thinking evn if v not conctd for some or the other reason in future v wud never stop luving each other n our luv wud nvr fade it wud increase wid time till v die v cud nvr luv someome else but if its destined that i marry someone else coz my family wud want like all mother n father wants n dreams for thier daughter i wud always respect him n b friends wid him but i can nvr luv him…but for now i wanna live whole happiness n life to fullest till the time m wid him that wll b jus not enough like all true lover but that for me it wud b priceless but ill always keep all his memories n our luv inside me n spend my life wid it n luv him more each passing day…
The Truth Is
Feb 8, 2017 at 8:08 am
Well if you were very extremely blessed to have been born many years earlier which real true love really did happen back then the way that our family members had it happened for them which came very easy for them at that time which unfortunately it is a very completely different time that we live in today since real true love for many of us is very extremely difficult time now unfortunately. For the married men and women that were very blessed to find their loved ones which you should be very thankful for what you have since your life is definitely very much complete. And there are many of us that definitely would’ve wanted the very same thing since many of us are still single unfortunately as i speak especially for us good men that really hate to still be single and alone now.
Em
Jan 28, 2017 at 3:40 am
I know I met my true love… It was unlike anything iv’e experienced ever. She is the most beautiful thing i have ever laid my eyes on by a substantial margin… Her dark ocean blue eyes are stuck in my mind forever. I can’t move on. I will never love anyone as much as i love her. She is my everything. I cry everyday, I dont tell anyone including her.. I need her in my life, I have zero intrest in dating anyone else. Absolutely none. I just want hold her in my arms, I want her to listen to my heart while we touch. Images of her constantly flashing through my head. I can never considerate on anything fully. My life is a mess right now. Both of ours are. We are both borderline crazy. We are both focusing on our own lives atm. As much as I want her by my side, Its hard for us to acomplish anything when we are together because all we do is love. ALL WE DO IS LOVE. its insane, We can cuddle for hours/days and it feels likke we are timeless, Like everything stands still. The way we look into eachothers eyes, we look into eachothers soul and see past everything. She’s my pretty girl… And though im strong enough to go on, It all feels pointless now (Even thoiugh i know its not) I need to focus on how i can support her and I. I want her forever even when we arent together. I need to show her that. Its been 4 months, and no momeries of her have fade, I remeber every little detail about her. I cant type anymore. Its killing me to do this but you get the idea.
Joshua
Dec 28, 2016 at 7:37 pm
I also feel the sabre way but what happens when your true love doesn’t work out down the road your soul mate your best friend and you break up you try to get back together and your true love is just a complete different person. So what then do you stay single hoping that he or she will come back or do you look for love again thr are so many people out thr
sparkyjsy
Jun 14, 2016 at 3:23 pm
I know its old post now, I believe it`s true that only love once, if believe you love time a time again then you will probably in for a shock when you truly fall in love because it`s like nothing else out there, from a physical point of view when they say your heart skips a beat it`s true even the hairs on the back of your neck stand up, and yes goose bumps too when you meet the person that person you truly love, and that can happen again and again even after being with that person for many years,
it gives you confidence you can`t buy and a great positive view on life as well as emotional strength.
sadly that boat already sailed for me many years ago but in time you move on and even learn to compromise and even be happy with that alternative, even after a few partners and now my wife who have been with for a very long time I am happy but not truly in love with her, if i bump into that special someone my hair still stands on end and my heart still misses a beat although they don`t know it. the way I see it is cest le vie and who knows if there is a next life maybe I will learn to hold onto that special someone whoever they maybe.
Idar77
May 1, 2016 at 1:28 am
I believe that you only fall in Love once in your life time. For me, it happened at the age of 24. Though at the time, for 4 straight years we were in Love with each other… Then something happened. We were living together for 3 years then. It was the daily grind of getting up and going to work…working mandatory overtime and not doing what we both wanted to do in our free time. Working 16 hours a day, which turned into like 20, 21 hours a day, put a strain on what we both wanted with and for each other. We we did go home, all we did was sleep. When we did have days off, it was each of us going our separate ways to pay our own bills and to handle our own business. Then one day, on our day off… We both sat on the edge of each others sides of the beds, not speaking and we both knew what we had to do. Tears were shed, but it was for the best. I saw her again, approaching me, with some one else by her side. We made eye contact, nodded…but still walk by each other without speaking. We both turned around and walked back to each other and just looked in each others eyes, no words…but we both knew. Turned and walked away. She was and still IS I believe my true Love to this day.
Sandy Francklin
Mar 17, 2016 at 6:23 am
There are so many different types of love…..love for freinds, our family, our animals,etc BUT I can honestly say, that, from my own personal experiences with partnership love, I have only ever met that one special man in my entire life, with whom I have never fallen out of love with. We met 8 years ago and I just fell in love with him from that day till now…but it hasnt been a fairy tale ending between us yet. We have had so many obstacles in our way in that time period.. We have been on and off due to very valid reasons of seperate committments we have towards our roles in parenting our children from other partners in our lives. We have had different callings and separate journies to follow. But when we are together, we are soul mates, we dont need other people in our space, we are really happy and content with each others company. We have shared so many unique experiences together, sometimes, even if just in absolute comfortable silence, just holding one another tight. Sometimes, I just listen to his heart beating, while he is holding me tight and it makes me feel so connected to him. Sometimes, he cups my face in his hands in total silence, but I can feel what he is thinking and feeling. Once, we were almost attacked by a dog and he threw his body in front of me to protect me from the dog. Sometimes he holds my hand and stares at it in silence and then finally, he will speak and tell me that he loves my hands. I do the same with him too. There are times that we listen to our favourite music together and we sing, cry, or laugh, depending on what we are listening to. We have shared our deepest secrets together. We have done some crazy fun things together too.. Once, we lay back in the car seats and we played a game called ……do you remember the time we did that together, etc……About 3 months ago, we had our first, very extreme argument and we havent seen each other since. I have sobbed my heart out every single day since then. I feel like I am mourning a death. The reason for our break up was due to him consuming an excessive amount of alcohol and making 4 seperate threats on my life while he was severely intoxicated. I dismissed the first 3 threats that he made towards me but on the fourth occassion, I, eventually, felt the urgent need to obtain assistance from the court, which I did do and it was the worst day of my life and my actions were to the detriment of us now having to be apart, possibly forever!! I have so wished that Adrian would come forward and apologise to me, but he hasnt yet. I often think about the day that he put his own life before mine to save me from potentially being bitten by the dog and I wonder why he then allowed his alcohol problem to destroy our deep love by threatening my life the way that he did. One never knows what could materialise from here forward. Perhaps he will still seek help for his alcohol problem and we will re-unite again one day. In the meantime,,,,,I am dying inside. I have tried to move on but nobody will ever compare to him. It feels that way for now,, perhaps I will see the bigger picture in the end. Who knows? All I know right now…is that he still holds that one very special place in my heart but I couldnt risk my own life to find out what may have happened next. S
Pandora
Mar 11, 2016 at 10:26 pm
The most telling of all is when you realize that all your past relationships were not the real thing. They don’t even compare to this true love that you’re now experiencing. And all those plans you made for your life, all that work you put in for your future is meaningless now that you’ve found him.
Why does true love show up so suddenly and unplanned? It hits you so hard, leaving you so vulnerable.
manas
Mar 8, 2015 at 5:15 am
True love happens only once
One who doesn’t get his true love his soul will become unsatisfied at the 2nd level of hell after death.
Daniel Calabrese
Dec 14, 2017 at 11:51 am
I fell totally in love with someone and I know she felt the same way even though she never expressed or admitted it to herself or me. We were companions from 2-15 and never left each other’s side. I do not know why perhaps it is because she’s worried I will not be a good enough provider or be able to have children b/c of my Developmental delay. Is that really Catholic belief that one will go to the second level of Hell b/c my soul-mate will not share her real feelings. Please explain more!
I
Aug 10, 2014 at 3:31 pm
I agree with what you have said 100%. I am in love now. Even though this is my “first love” I believe that it is true. That is not me being naïve, believing that the first person I think I love is my soul mate, but instead a feeling that is so intense and strong and uncontrollable, that I know can be nothing other than real.
Throughout my life I have observed people who claim to be in love, for example my parents. They were together for 14 years, married for 9 and as any oblivious child, I just assumed they loved each other in a way they could love nobody else. That was until they separated and moved on. My mum is now with the man I would express to be her soul mate. Unlike my parent’s relationship, which consisted of quick goodbye kisses and brief “I love you”s at the door, my mum and her boyfriend’s relationship has passion, kisses and “I love you”s that you can tell are real, hugs that seem to give off the sense of security that they get from being in each other’s arms, and a happiness and connection which is cannot be missed even from the blindest eye. That’s what I believe true love is. You can see the fire in their eyes when they’re together, a fire that is obvious to have only been lit by this one person.
Fires come in all different forms, but only a single flame will burn the candle out to it’s death. True love can be misinterpreted, but only one person, one flame, one ignition in your life has enough power and enough fire to burn with you until you die. This same power that that one person possesses is the reason why losing them hurts more than anyone else, their flame leaves a scar on you, a scar, a longing that will stick with you forever.
The reason why many people do not believe in everyone having one true love is because they see love as an action, a thing that you can simply choose to participate in or ignore. However, if you’ve ever experienced true love, you will know that it is uncontrollable. Love is not a choice or action, but a feeling. An emotion that consumes you and can not be stopped. True love is ever lasting. It may be possible to move on, but it never possible to forget.
Selina
Apr 25, 2018 at 11:40 am
Im in love he left yesterday to another country i would do anything to go back to the days we were together i miss him i love him a lot and would do anything for him pls come back one day
S.
Sep 8, 2013 at 2:12 pm
Im in love… I know i am… The thing is, my parents dont accept her, because she is 16 years older than me…
We’ve been together for 9 years…
My parents wont let us be together anymore… Its tearing me apart…
Sairea
Jul 11, 2018 at 3:55 am
I know it’s hard to bare this but if she is ur true love than you have to explain ur parents. Of course your parents love you and if you try to convince them they will
Don’t lose hope
Breaking of heart is most painful and who knows that better than me
So please do something
That doesn’t mean go against ur parents but try hard and u will succeed
Nana
Sep 9, 2018 at 2:11 pm
Hi you wrote this 5 years ago you and your lover will be happy now ? Is your parents agree your love? (Sorry for my bad English)